You are the average of the five people who take up the most of your daily attention.

Either in person, reading their books, watching their videos, listening to their audios, etc.

If you want to have a better life, then make a list of all the traits and things you want to be, do and have and then compare that lists to what those 5 people are, do and have.

If they do not match, then find people who do match and spend more time giving attention to them.

That seems so very simple but people just don’t get it.

Here are some examples:

If you are in a relationship that you want to grow and nurture, it is not a good idea to spend a lot of your time and attention on people who have bad relationships or are constantly complaining about their relationships.

If you want more money, you don’t want to spend time with people who have a poverty consciousness or are always having money troubles.

If you want good health, you don’t want to be in groups that are constantly talking about their unwanted condition.

If you are single and want to be married, hang out with happy married people or read books about them.

If you are happy with your job (or want to be) don’t spend time with people who constantly complain about theirs.

You want to deliberately put your dominant attention on that which you are wanting.

But here is the rub.

The reason those other people are in your life is because by the Law of Attraction!

YOU attracted them because they currently MATCH your dominant vibration.

Most likely, you did it like most people, unknowingly and by default, so don’t beat yourself up about it.

Just notice where you are and start to make a change.

As you first start shifting this attention, it will feel a bit uncomfortable.

This is when it is important to use some of the other tools I have written about in this blog and in my daily email coaching.

Then, as you shift your attention and thus your vibration, allow those others to fade harmoniously away or they might see your positive new life and decide to come along for the ride.

However, don’t try to change them or make them come along.

You can only work on yourself and allow all others to do the same if you really want to attract the life of your dreams.

Kathy Hadley

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WOOHOO! I posted the above post and then Jim Rohn, himself, posted this in addition on facebook !!!

“You must constantly ask yourself these questions: Who am I around? What are they doing to me? What have they got me reading? What have they got me saying? Where do they have me going? What do they have me thinking? And most important, what do they have me becoming?

Then ask yourself the big question: Is that okay?” — Jim Rohn

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